Hi Pogo,
To use ST-4 for guiding, you need to set the mount to "On Camera ST4" in ASIAIR in the Mount Menu..
That, unfortunately, will not allow you to do any GOTO (from Telescope Setup window or after a plate solve) or perform slewing (from Home window).
So, while ST-4 will make Guiding work (the mount uses its own guide speed in ST4), nothing else will work since ASIAIR assumes that is it not connected to a controllable mount.
What you experienced is similar to the guide/slew speed problem that I have with the RainbowAstro RST-135 in the firmware (2.64) that accompanied the current ASIAIR v1.2.1. The bug did not exist in Firmware version 2.61, and also did not exist with ASIAIR 1.2.1 Betas.
I solved the problem by first launching ASIAIR from an Android device that ran ASIAIR 1.2 and telling ASIAIR when prompted not to update the firmware.
While connected to Android and after capturing an image (this completes a connection), I can then run ASIAIR app on an iPad.
The iOS version of ASIAIR does not give you the option to keep using the 2.61 firmware, but by doing the above, since ASIAIR hardware is already active, the ASIAIR app on iOS will not force a firmware download.
(Yes, with some caveats, you can connect to ASIAIR from multiple tablets and smart phones.)
After iOS ASIAIR app is completely connected, I can then quit from Android and continue to run ASIAIR from iOS for the rest of the night. ASIAIR has a much more fluid GUI under iOS.
This is a nuisance, especially since after a few nights of doing this, ASIAIR on Android will, just like iOS, force you to update the firmware, and you then need to spend a minute or two to uninstall the Android ASIAIR app, and reinstall the Android app from the older v1.2 APK file again, and then click on all the "Got it" bubbles that pop up in ASIAIR.
However, as a last resort, reverting back to Firmware 2.61 might also work for you if you have (1) a SD card backup which contained the v2.61 firmware, and (2) an Android device and more importantly, (3) still have the old ASIAIR v1.2 installer (APK file) that had the Firmware 2.61 payload.
(You do not need a real Android device to perform the above, BlueStacks on MacOS or Windows will work instead of a real Android device.)
Who knows what surprises v1.3 will bring, however. But lets hope that they do some proper regression testing concerning slew/guide speeds in future releases.
Chen