JacupV
I think the bt is only used to trigger the initial seestar wifi direct ssid connection. Bt shares the 2.4ghz wifi band. Once that is established, bt goes away which might be why you never see it. I've never looked for it since the printed steps worked. Until you get seestar wifi direct functional, station mode will be an exercise in futility.
It will only ask for a bt connection attempt in future terms if the wifi gets lost. It's not a choice AFAIK.
I would start from scratch & reset the comms... long, 10 sec press of the reset button.